
Which aesthetic fits you more: 'Soft Girl' or 'Cottagecore'?
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Determining how to set up your bedroom can be a difficult task. Choosing the right colors for your walls to where to place furniture can cause a serious headache. An easy way to combat this headache is by choosing an aesthetic. But which aesthetic is meant for you? For those who are hoping to add more softness and or even a romantic vibe to your bedroom, the soft girl or cottage core aesthetic might be the one for you.
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1. Defining these two aesthetic
The soft girl aesthetic, which has grown popular over the last few years, is a direct response to the ‘Girlboss’ era that occurred in the late 2000s and early 2010s. With many young adults and teens opting for a ‘softer life', doing more cozy activities, and not being as career-driven, this aesthetic has a gentle, feminine, and playful feel. Blending pastel colors, delicate fashions, and soft looks together creates a sense of innocence, comfort, and gentleness. By bringing more femininity into your space, you can encourage more warmth and positivity into your life.
Cottagecore aesthetic, while similar to the soft girl aesthetic, is based more on home life, simplicity, and nature. This aesthetic saw a huge rise during the COVID-19 pandemic on social media, when nostalgia for a simpler time and simpler living became more and more desired. A key aspect of cottagecore is romanticizing daily tasks, from taking walks in a large field to doing more Home EC projects like sewing and baking. This aesthetic takes a more natural approach to life. Cottagecore is about embracing a slower, countryside lifestyle, romanticizing simplicity, and being more connected to nature.
2. Elements of the ‘Soft Girl’ Bedroom Aesthetic
‘Soft Girl’ is a more gentle approach to life, with it being a more cozy, dreamy, and feminine space that reflects warmth, innocence, and gentleness. It combines pastel colors, soft textures, and whimsical touches to make a calm, inviting environment.
Some of these colors include:
- soft pinks
- baby blues
- lavender
- pale yellow
- mint green
which are key colors, create a dreamy feel to your room. Pastel colors tend to give off a feminine, romantic touch to your spaces, creating a sense of peace and relaxation.
Along with this, having plush duvet covers of soft lines or floral patterns adds to the soft aesthetic. Bedding with lace, delicate embroidery, or even scalloped edges contributes to the whimsical vibe.
If you feel as though your space is missing a few things, adding items like throw or knitted blankets can help give your room more depth and comfort. You can also have throw/plush pillows with pastel colors, floral prints, or with cute, heart-shaped designs to help bring up colors and make your space even cozier.
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3. Elements of the ‘Cottagecore’ Bedroom Aesthetic
Much like the ‘soft girl’ aesthetic, cottagecore is based on having a cozy and romantic vibe. However, there is a higher emphasis on nature and romanticizing rural life. With earthy neutrals and vintage-inspired colors, emphasizing coziness and simplicity, these aspects help create a warm and domestic style environment.
Colors like
- Cream
- Warm beige
- Greys
- Green
- Burnt orange
are go-tos for this aesthetic because of their homey feel. Since these colors remind us of countryside homes and more rural places, having these colors in your room can make it feel cozier.
To further the coziness of your room, having ruffled or lace-trimmed bedding can make your space feel as though you are stepping into a vintage cottage from the 20th century. With its soft and delicate touch, it instills a sense of comfort and softness in your bedroom.
A big part of the cottagecore aesthetic is having things that look homemade. So items like knitted blankets and quilts can really add a DIY feeling to your space. Adding even more personal touches to your space can include things like different types of pillows, which can come in a mix of textures, patterns, or even embroidered ones.
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4. How to determine which aesthetic is best for you
Still unsure which one is the best for you? There are a few things to help you determine between the soft girl aesthetic and cottagecore aesthetic; it ultimately comes down to your personality, lifestyle, and which one feels most like you.
The soft girl aesthetic has a more playful, youthful energy and tends to be grounded more in the now. Since this aesthetic is based on current pop culture, many of its elements can be found in today’s trends like bows, gingham prints, Y2K fashion, and "barely there" makeup. If you notice that your interests are more focused on cutie or feminine trends and that you lead a more gentle lifestyle, then the soft girl aesthetic may be the one for you.
On the other hand, the Cottagecore aesthetic has a huge emphasis on
- romanticizing rural life
- simplicity
- and a deep connection to nature.
With its nostalgic escape into the countryside, this aesthetic is best for those who love more vintage-inspired things. If you are drawn towards whimsical, old-timey, or even homey items like classic literature, thrifted clothing styles, or even having your own homemade pies or bread at home, you may be drawn to this aesthetic more.
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5. Why not include both?
Still feeling unsure or caught between two aesthetics? Why choose just one when you can blend the best of both! While these styles may differ at their core, they naturally complement each other when thoughtfully combined. Imagine soft pastel floral bedding layered with a chunky knitted blanket to bring a dreamy, comforting vibe to your space. Or elevate your neutral bedspread with delicate lace or floral accent pillows for that perfect balance of softness and contrast.
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Thank you for reading!
There you have it! Finding the right aesthetic for you and your bedroom can be a hard task, but hopefully, this blog has helped you reach a conclusion to see if you are a soft girl or a cottagecore girl. Find the right bedding to match both in our website and find the right decor to go alongside it. Happy Shopping!
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